3 things to remember in life

5 min readAug 29, 2022


Three things to remember in life

Good opportunities, Time, Words said (words spoken)

Good Opportunities

Opportunities are situations that present themselves that give you a chance to accomplish something you want. Should we look for opportunities or wait for them to come to us? We all experience both of these things in our lives. Some opportunities may present themselves, but we don’t take advantage of them. Since we didn’t realize it was an excellent opportunity. After that, we apologize so much for that. But we think some are opportunities, but they can be deceptive. Often, we fall into it without realizing it. In what ways can we recognize that this is an opportunity for our benefit? First, we must acknowledge our strengths as well as our weaknesses. As a result of that awareness, we can decide whether what is open before us is an opportunity for growth and success or for failure. The next step would be to ask someone you trust for advice. Then make sure you are well prepared. Our skills need to be honed through preparation. Learning something new is always a good thing. Be aware that good opportunities may not always be available.


”Time, once lost, won’t be found again”. A lost moment is a lost moment forever. We can’t get time back or the time has once gone, cannot be recovered. Time is more precious than anything in this world. The proverb “Time and tide wait for no one” is an English saying. This proverb illustrates that just like the tide doesn’t wait for anyone, neither does time. What should we do now? Use the time we have to the fullest extent possible. we cannot stop the passing of time. With time, the entire world runs. The value of time is more valuable than the value of money. It is possible to acquire more money, but time cannot be acquired. We will never forget the incident where PT Usha lost her Olympic medal at the 1984 Los Angeles Olympics in 400-meter hurdles. The medal was said to have been lost by one-hundredth of a second. At that time, we knew there had been such a time. At that point, we realized we could split a second again. People who are successful in life are those who understand the value of time and make good use of it.

Words said (words spoken)

It has been said that words spoken cannot be retrieved. Therefore, words should be used carefully. Don’t let anyone be offended by our words, and don’t fill anyone’s eyes. There are times when the words we say are like coals of fire. It does not burn and it doesn’t go out. Those who hear it will remember it for a long time. The speaker does not know the condition of the listener. Saying that the wounds caused by our words can be healed is a lie. Its memory lingers until they die. It is not wealth, education, or beauty that defines a person as a great person. The ability to speak and act without hurting another’s mind makes us great. It’s time to think about what words were spent unnecessarily. Think back to the words that were used to hurt, blame, and mock others. Word choice is important. It is important to choose our words carefully.

In life, there are three things that are not guaranteed

Dream, Success, Luck


Dreams are good. There is nothing wrong with dreaming and setting goals. However, it does not have to happen the way we imagine. There is no guarantee that dreams will come true. For some, things just happen the way they dreamed. Dreams are shattered for the great majority of people. Yet we dream that it is part of our everyday lives. You will always see light despite the darkness, no matter how many dreams you break or how many fortunes you lose. It’s true that thousands of people around us live in this single hope. Learning to live without a lot of dreams is the key to not worrying too much. Love those whose dreams are shattered. Empowering them is necessary. People in our lives would say that this life never even existed in the dreams of ninety-nine percent if you ask them if this is the life of their dreams. But everyone dreams because there is no cost involved.


We all define success differently. For some, success may be a good job, it may mean better financing for some, others, however, might be more concerned with fame and name. All human beings aspire to attain success, and it is for this reason that they work very hard, day and night. Success and failure are actually two sides of the same coin. It is true that those who succeed in something should also be prepared to face failure because success sometimes comes to us after an array of failures. Success and failure are part of life. There are no winners or losers in life. You don’t have to want success all the time. Because it is not possible. What we need to do is to accept life as it unfolds.


Our society is characterized by some people who can’t achieve success in life. They struggle throughout their life. They work hard, but they suffer constantly. There is a saying that when we see people like this, we are assuming they are unlucky and that is why they are like this. some people say that the success of a person in a particular endeavor is totally based on luck. It is true that we cannot deny the role of luck and fate in life. It is true that not everyone is lucky. There are people who don’t have luck at all; there are people who have a lot of it. We say that luck was on their side in some cases and luck played a role in their success. There is, however, no guarantee of this. There is a saying “fortune favors the bold”. According to this saying, courageous people will appear more fortunate than others because they will face challenges and emerge victoriously. Continue reading

Originally published at Lovely Essays

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